We don’t get to choose what happens to us in this life. And life certainly isn’t fair. We do get to choose what we do about what happens to us. These are critical choices to our happiness, health, and success.

Central to my latest book, Growing @ the Speed of Change: Your Inspir-actional How-To Guide For Leading Yourself and Others through Constant Change is this model:

We move between all columns – sometimes all in one day. Which column best describes where you spend most of your time? Who says so besides you? What would your family, friends, or co-workers say?

You can read all of this core chapter here.