Issue 191 - February 2019
Daniel Boone once said, "I can't say I was ever lost, but I was bewildered once for three days." Of course, being a real 'he-man,' he would never ask for directions!
Many leaders are bewildered about communication problems in their organizations. A well-known line uttered by a desperate sailor in Samuel Taylor Coleridge's "The Rime of the Ancient Mariner" is, "water, water everywhere, nor any drop to drink." Many people in today's organizations feel like there's "info, info everywhere, but not a drop of communication to drink."
When we discuss this growing problem, I'll often ask workshop participants to raise their hand if they feel their organizations need much better communications. Almost every hand goes up. I'll then ask how many people would like to increase the number of e-mails they get. Few hands go up. Yet what happens when managers hear people ask for more communications? That's right, they send more e-mails. Like confusing activity with accomplishment, most managers confuse information with communications.
The first post in this month's issue focuses on the communications confusion confounding so many leaders. We live in the information age with more communication tools and channels than ever before. Yet true communication is getting worse. Water, water everywhere...
As you'll read below, I've been gathering input and researching my latest book. That brings me back to reflecting on a few timeless leadership principles. Communication breakdowns are complicated. They have many causes. Losing touch with these underlying leadership principles creates or adds to communication failures:
This issue also deals with another big challenge of our time: overload. When disconnected and undisciplined senior leaders demand way too much of middle managers and their teams, it's a communication problem. Successful middle managers face their fear and have courageous conversations. That can be a CLM (career limiting moose), but strong leaders refuse to be infected with the Victimitis Virus.
This issue also deals with meeting madness. Meetings can dramatically enhance communication and time management. Or not. Too many meetings suck the energy and effectiveness from many participants. How are yours? How do you know?
Today's technology can compound misunderstandings at higher speeds to more people. Effective leaders build community and communion with conversations for deeper understanding and connection. And their actions ensure people see them loud and clear.
Is "we really need to improve communications around here" a common refrain in your workplace? It's a very common frustration and complaint. Incresing Communications was the highest voted topic by nearly 500 readers who completed our "reader sourcing" survey on key topic areas for the new book I am working on.
Given the importance readers placed on communications, I've invested quite a bit of time in the past months reading the many thoughtful comments, suggestions, and ideas on improving communications in a follow-up reader survey. Click here if you'd like still like to provide me with your feedback. You can also join my Book Advisory Panel with or without completing the survey.
I've been reviewing reader perspectives on increasing communications while looking much deeper at the growing reservoir of research on this broad topic. Like a doctor hearing a complaint of a headache, communication problems are often signs of deeper issues. There's rarely a quick and easy solution.
Reader feedback and my research have led me to diagnose eight common causes of communication breakdowns. These intertwine with entangled cause and effect relationships unique to each situation:
These eight points can be both symptoms and causes of communication breakdowns in various combinations. How are you, your team, or your organization doing?
You might rank order these from the biggest to smallest problems. Which is the most critical area that might unlock your door to stronger communications?
I had an exchange of messages with a reader about my blog post Stupid Busy: Is Your Leadership Team Overloading Your Organization? The reader, who we'll call George, wrote,
"As a middle manager who is on the receiving end of this, you are hitting the nail squarely on the head. Unfortunately, there is no way in the world I would dare share this on my LinkedIn feed as any critique of senior management is a huge risk to my job. Maybe when I give notice after finding another job!"
Too many senior leadership teams are like me in a buffet line: loading up their plates with more than they can eat. The overload problem often stems from a combination of urgency about all the change needed today, being out of touch with what their organization can deliver, too many moose on the loose, and failure to make tough choices. Both Steve Jobs and Warren Buffet have said that saying no to all the demands on a leader's time was critical to their success. Jim Collins finds that a laser focus and disciplined priority setting is a critical factor separating great organizations from good ones.
George may be victimized by undisciplined senior leaders, but he refuses to be a victim. He's developed upward leadership strategies. He says,
"Sometimes I get senior managers to think that our ideas are really their ideas (which has worked quite well but comes with its own costs). Other times, I build such strong support with other key leaders, that they present my ideas for me."
George also observed that the roots of many poor behaviors are fear.
"...fear of being accountable for others' work, of having to clean up messes, or of things not going well. Senior leaders can still get results with many poor leadership approaches, but it's hard on people. Fear is something we all deal with. I am no exception. It is one of the biggest obstacles leaders have to overcome."
I agree. Fear is at the root of many poor management practices. A culture of fear is a major reason senior leaders can get so stupidly off track with their plans and projects. When teams aren't having authentic communication or courageous conversations, leaders don't know what they don't know.
An online survey by Crucial Conversations found respondents compared their failing projects to "slow-motion train wrecks." Tellingly, over 80 percent said, "approaching a key decision maker about the project is nearly impossible."
Ironically, leaders who create fearful workplaces don't know they've done so because people are afraid to tell them. Mid-level leaders like George refuse to let fear infect them with the "Victimitus Virus." Strong leaders know there are three choices:
What would you do if you weren't afraid?
Raise your hand if you're an above average driver. According to the American Automobile Association, 73% of drivers feel they're better than average -- a statistical impossibility.
How's your meeting leadership? You likely feel that many meetings you attend suck. That's because...many do. Too often meetings suck time and energy out of everyone. And most meeting leaders are blissfully ignorant about how wasteful attendees feel their meetings are. How do you know what attendees think of your meetings?
This month's Harvard Business Review features an article by Steven Rogelberg, professor and author of a new book on the science of meetings. In "Why Your Meetings Stink -- And What to Do About It," he reports that 8 out of the average 23 hours a week, executives spend in meetings are unproductive. That's a day a week wasted! That truly sucks.
Are you contributing to meeting madness? Rogelberg reports a survey of managers showed they feel that 79% of the meetings they drive are extremely or very productive. But, they report, that just over half the meetings they attended as passengers are as effective as their own. So many managers are driving their meeting attendees crazy with mediocre meetings while believing "I am not the problem, they are."
Here's a big clue about what's going on; Rogelberg cites research showing that "the attendees
Rogelberg's solution for boosting meeting effectiveness:
I continue to be astounded and mystified why so many leaders accept poorly run, time-sucking meetings as if it's an unavoidable price of doing business. The only explanation seems to be ignorance -- of their own meeting leadership effectiveness and that meetings can be soooo MUCH better. Rogelberg points out that 75% of managers responding to a survey said they had no training in how to run a meeting. So, they don't know what they don't know about meeting effectiveness.
Meeting misery or mastery depends on the leader. I've been beating the meeting drum so long my arm's getting sore. If you suspect you might be able to improve how you drive meetings, do a self-assessment with our Ten Essential Vitamins to Avoid Meeting Indigestion or these meeting process and ground rules checklists. Better yet, get your attendees to rate your meeting effectiveness.
You might find the chart showing how meetings showcase organizational culture useful. Are your meetings symptomatic of deeper team and organizational issues?
Be part of the solution, not the problem. Straighten up and drive right.
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